Bad habits

http://www.postsecret.com/

Two wrongs don't make a right but revenge is a part of human nature. To me, this postsecret is just an example of how people try to get back at each other and in the end up hurting one another.

Revenge makes common sense: you hurt me, I hurt you. And it’s hard to be the bigger person and just deal with the hurt and do nothing back. I'm a big believer in karma; what goes around comes around. I try to live by that motto and that usually helps me avoid taking revengeful actions.

Another lesson from this postsecret is that people are too quick to judge. The person assumed her partner was cheating when he actually was not. A lot of times, things aren't how they seem but we are usually too impatient to find out the real facts.

What I guess I'm trying to say is that we all possess bad qualities: revengeful motives and quick to form judgments.  And the only way to solve this is to make a conscious effort to be a bigger person.

http://www.postsecret.com/

I am adding a second postsecret today because I think this one correlates with the one above. Although we all do possess bad qualities, sometimes people love us for them. Or maybe a better way to put it is that sometimes a person can overlook our bad sides and still love us. This postsecret is about a woman who loves her drug addict partner even though he consumes drugs.

In my opinion, our bad habits/qualities help define us. The point is to find people who are able to deal with our vices and help us improve.